
RESEARCH SUPPORTS ABSTINENCE-CENTERED EDUCATION
BY BOB MCALISTER AND DAVE WILSON
Amanda was 15 years old and pregnant. Her mom was 30; her grandmother, 45. The baby’s father was gone. Her dad was in prison. The man living with her mom was boyfriend number six.
For some, she was a statistic; for others, a tragic story of a cycle that many assume is unbreakable.
She was a bright girl, doing better than “just scraping by” in school. She enjoyed hanging out with her friends and wanted to join her high school band.
But Amanda had become yet another in a long line of teen mothers in her family – a sad story for a girl who, just two years earlier, had dreams of becoming a doctor. A special scholarship for children of inmates would have paid her way through private school, but academic change was not enough. Amanda needed new skills to help her to avoid the pitfalls that eventually stole her opportunity.
The stories of Amandas across the nation are much the same: fatherless households with single moms struggling to make it, sex at an early age – often associated with family instability, children having children with little to no hope of breaking the cycle.
In the 80s and 90s, family planning programs promised breakthroughs for young women like Amanda. But, as funding for contraception-centered programs increased, STD/HIV and teen pregnancy rates skyrocketed. Subsequently, government costs for health and welfare programs ballooned out of control.
The impact of out-of-wedlock and broken families has been well documented by the social sciences and is beyond dispute.
The late Jack Kemp, former vice presidential candidate, drew the point home talking about the breakdown of the family. Kemp said, “kids’ lives are being damaged, men’s and women’s lives are being damaged and the fabric of our culture is being damaged. We’re losing the commitment to prepare for marriages, commit to marriages, honor it culturally and prevent the hardship of divorce and kids being born out of wedlock.”
Against this all-too-familiar background of fragmented families, support for abstinence-centered education regained some of the traction it lost in the latter half of the twentieth century, when fear of HIV was driving federally-funded sex education policy.
In 1996, the Clinton Administration made changes to the Social Security Act that provided federal funding “to promote abstinence from sexual activity, with a focus on those groups which are most likely to bear children out-of-wedlock” (Section 510 of the Social Security Act, http://www.ssa.gov/OP_Home/ssact/title05/0510.htm).
Self-control replaced self-indulgence and personal responsibility regained respect. In essence, the federal government gave an overwhelming stamp of approval on the simple truth that abstinence outside of marriage is foundational to rebuilding the crumbling American family.
Through welfare reform, fiscal and social policies joined forces, providing a clear definition for abstinence education. Eight federal guidelines focused attention on the benefits of sexual abstinence, the positive effects of marriage, and the skills young people need to make their best choices.
While Kemp and so many others could speak to the social impact, very few could articulate the economic impact until 2008 when a first-of-its-kind study was released documenting the enormous economic cost of the breakdown of the family in America.
The study, published by the Institute for American Values, took a state-by-state look at the very issues abstinence-centered education was established to address: out-of-wedlock pregnancy, divorce, and fragmenting American families.
In the last decade, the United States of America has spent more than $1 trillion for unwed childbearing and broken families. To bring it closer to home, the economic impact to South Carolina is $469 million every year in lost revenue, social programs and burdens on the justice system spurred on by broken families.
In light of tough economic times, when our state is making round after round of budget cuts and the federal government is bailing out failed institutions, research on abstinence education in South Carolina indicates strong success. The Heritage Keepers® Abstinence Education program, used across the state, reports that its students initiate sex at half the rate of similar non-program students, as measured a year later. Investing in abstinence-centered education programs like Heritage Keepers® Abstinence Education, and others that show similar promise (abstinenceworks.org), is critical.
Abstinence education reversed the trends of the 90’s, when the majority of teens were having sex. After federal and state governments made a real investment in America’s future by financially supporting abstinence-centered education programs, the majority of today’s teens say that they are abstaining, a phenomenal change in trends. Abstinence-centered education is teaching the skills that break the cycle of poverty for untold thousands of the next generation, including Amanda’s child. That’s an investment that will mean a stronger America and a stronger South Carolina for years to come.
For more information: National Abstinence Education Association (abstinenceassociation.org) and abstinenceworks.org.




This is the dumbest shit I ever read, next to what you usually post. Do you really believe what these jokers wrote? Are you really that vapid? I guess when you can make shit up and create your own reality (like Wilson and McAlister did), any argument will make sense.
You know, the mom is 30, the grandmother is 45…sounds like a long list of shitty parenting.
Abstinence is fine if that’s what you believe in…but how about educating the kids on safe sex…is it that hard?? Especially after the grandmother made the mistake, the mother made the mistake…how stupid is this family?
And then pro choice comes into play…of course the religious right finds it more appropriate for this girl to have her entire life ruined (which it will be…she will drop out of school and the father is non-existent) than to even consider an abortion. If that’s your stance, fine. But this isn’t 1950…abstinence isn’t going to happen with 80% of modern population…10% are abstinent by choice, the other 10% just can’t get any.
Where is the MAN that goes with the 45 year old? How about the MAN that goes with the 30 year old not to mention the MAN that left the 15 year old pregnant.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE THREE MEN IN THIS STORY?
Mr Wolfe has nailed it!
Any ten year old who can use Google Scholar knows there is a mountain of studies indicating this is a total failure and correlates with both higher pregnancy and STIs.
Just ask Sarah’s daughter how it worked for her!
Mr. Wolfe,
You’re entitled to your opinion. I know firsthand what happened in Amanda’s family. She stood as the flower girl in our wedding and my wife tutored her during middle school. When you say we’re making things up, let’s take a drive and I’ll introduce you to Amanda’s children. They’re finishing elementary school… and living in the same home she grew up in.
Before you throw potshots, realize there are those whose lives may not have been as fortunate as yours.
John John what gives you the right to assume that young parents are shitty; “the mom is 30, the grandmother is 45…sounds like a long list of shitty parenting.” That argument holds no merit, I myself was the child of a young mother and I’m a young father; not quit as young as the above, yet my child has the best of everything and I’m far from shitty.
Neocon…When all was said and done that was quite a shitty comment.
This article is spot on. To ORLY – your “mountain of studies” is inaccurate and really only refers to one study done by Mathmatica. One of the leaders in Mathmatica actually spoke at an abstinence conference and admitted that they were incorrect in their study. http://www.abstinenceworks.org explains why.
What you will not hear from the media is that comprehensive sex education (which is a misleading name) gets $12 to every $1 that abstinence education receives. Every young person these days knows what a condom is and how to get one, yet STD’s are on the rise.
Abstinence is the only 100% effective way to prevent teen pregnancy and STD’s and the other physical, emotional, mental and social consequences. Abstinence is about hope for the future and you can’t get any better than that.
These teens know that they can do what they want with no penalty. The dads can be in their 20’s and 30’s and no one cares that they just impregnated a teen. The government will pay for prenatal care, the delivery, the baby formula, the day care…….Heck, they will even send a teacher to their home.
The moms don’t have to worry if the father of their baby is a looser, because Uncle Obama will make everything better. You get what you pay for! We pay for unwed mothers and we get unwed mothers.
The frequently much older sperm donor suffers no consequences for having sex with little girls. Hey, these girls even sell the rights to claim the babies as a tax deduction. Since they don’t work, they sell the right to claim the baby.